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Friday, June 09, 2006

No More "till' some other time"

After 21 years of marriage, I discovered a new way of keeping alive the
spark of love. A little while ago I had started to go out with another
woman. It was really my wife's idea. "I know that you love her," she
said one day, taking me by surprise.
"But I love YOU," I protested. "I know, but you also love her."

The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my mother, who has
been a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my three
children had made it possible to visit her only occasionally. That
night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie.

"What's wrong, are you well?" she asked. My mother is the type of woman
who suspects that a late night call or a surprise invitation is a sign
of bad news.

"I thought that it would be pleasant to pass some time with you," I
responded. " Just the two of us."

She thought about it for a moment then said "I would like that very
much."

That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit
nervous. When I arrived at her house, I noticed that she, too, seemed
to be nervous about our date. She waited in the door with her coat on.

She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to
celebrate her last wedding anniversary. She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an angel's.

"I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they
were impressed," she said, as she got into the car. "They can't wait to hear about our meeting". We went to a restaurant that, although not
elegant, was very nice and cozy. my mother took my arm as if she were
the First Lady.

After we sat down, I had to read the menu to her. Her eyes could only
read large print. Half way through the entree, I lifted my eyes and
saw Mom sitting there staring at me.

A nostalgic smile was on her lips. "It was I who used to have to read
the menu when you were small," she said.

"Then it's time for you to relax and let me return the favor," I
responded.

During the dinner we had an agreeable conversation, nothing
extraordinary - but catching up on recent events of each others lives.
We talked so much that we missed the movie.

As we arrived at her house later, she said "I'll go out with you again,
but only if you let me invite you". I agreed.

"How was your dinner date?" asked my wife when I got home. "Very nice.
Much more so than I could have imagined," I answered.

A few days later my mother died of a massive heart attack. It happened
so suddenly that I didn't have a chance to do anything for her.

Some time later I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant
receipt from the same place mother and I had dined.

An attached note said: "I paid this bill in advance. I was almost sure
that I couldn't be there but, nevertheless, I paid for two plates -
one for you and the other for your wife. You will never know what that
night meant to me. I love you."

At that moment I understood the importance of saying, in time: "I LOVE
YOU" and giving our loved ones the time that they deserve.

Nothing in life is more important than God and your family and friends.

Give them the time they deserve, because these things cannot be put off
'til "some other time".

Someone once said "I've learned that, regardless of your relationship
with your parents, you'll miss them when they're gone from your
life.

I think this is true with your in-laws, grandchildren, sisters,
brothers and your friends. Anyone that means something to you-you
should spend time with them and let them know how much they mean to you as often as you can.

Please pass this along to your friends and family. Touch
their hearts.
It has touched mine. I am glad that you are my friend.

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